Okay, I have a link for you. More and more often, when I'm cruising the 'net recreationally, I find myself in these advice articles, scouting for ideas and inspiration. This article at Men's Health nails some pretty important relationship concepts better than most (especially on men's sites, I'm sad to say, which often just want to set out rules for a manipulative game). This one has it right, and it's advice that both genders can take to heart ... especially rule #9!

Happy lovin' ...
Soph